Adolescents and suicide prevention
Greensburg Daily NewsJan 18, 2020
Why discuss mental health matters with kids? Suicide is the second leading cause of death in the Unites States for kids ages 10-19. And 1 out of every 6 high school students has considered suicide in the past year. Depression and suicide affect people of every race, religious background, and income level. Kids need to know the warning signs of depression and suicide and how to get help. Most kids who attempt suicide have shown signs of depression.
"According to suicide prevention experts, asking a child directly about suicidal thoughts is usually the best thing a parent can do to help their child open up about their emotions. Even if their child is not struggling with suicide or depression, parents can model for their child that it is good to talk about serious emotional concerns with trusted adults and important to reach out to friends to have these conversations, too." www.nationwidechildrens.org.
Conversation
Together, parents/guardians can educate themselves on suicide information. Peruse valid websites for facts and statistics. Put techno devices down. Give your full attention to kid. Listen as much as you talk. Answer questions.
"If this is a hard subject for you to talk about, admit it! ("You know, I never thought this was something I'd be talking with you about, but I think it's really important"). By acknowledging your discomfort, you give your child permission to acknowledge his/her discomfort too." Read more from the
Responses to Suicide Comments
If your child makes a comment about hurting himself/herself, wanting to die, or being unsure of living, take it seriously (but do not overreact). Start with these phrases to validate emotions and understand his/her emotional pain. "Sometimes kids feel so sad, mad or even hopeless that they feel like hurting themselves. Have you been feeling like that?" "Are you thinking about killing yourself?" "Do you have a plan about how you would kill yourself?" "We will get through this together. And you can and will feel better."
Crisis Options: Parents can call a 24-hour crisis line and ask for assistance. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is 1-800-273-TALK (8255). Parents can transport their child to the nearest hospital emergency room for a mental health assessment or call 911.
Non-crisis options: Schedule a visit with pediatrician. The pediatrician can assess early warning signs of suicidal in their patients, to diagnose and recommend treatment, and to provide referrals. Or schedule an appointment with a mental health professional.
Resource
When Nothing Matters Anymore: A Survival Guide for Depressed Teens (ages 13 and up) by
Don't make suicide prevention a taboo topic. Talk about mental health with teens.
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