Time to talk with kids about suicide
Oberlin News-TribuneOct 19, 2017
It’s a truth no parent wants to contemplate: Many of our children think about taking their own lives.
But it’s time for parents to ask their kids about suicidal thoughts and depression — and most importantly, to listen.
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The research found 13 percent of sixth-graders, 14.4 percent of eight-graders, and 18.3 percent of 10th-graders said they’d seriously considered attempting suicide in the prior year.
Another 23 percent of sixth-graders said they experienced sadness and hopelessness, up to 35.6 percent by 10th grade.
The numbers also show that almost none of those children are discussing their feelings with a parent.
Many parents feel at a loss for how to approach kids about the topic, according to the
The group says the first step is to learn about the factors that can put your teen at risk. Then start looking for warning signs: expressions of hopelessness about the future, displaying overwhelming emotional pain, changes in behavior, anger and hostility, making threats about self-harm, and experiencing extreme stress.
“Talking — directly, non-judgmentally, and with compassion — with a child about suicide can make a real difference to their safety and well-being,” wrote
“It’s OK to acknowledge that this is a tough subject: ‘You know, I never thought this was something I’d be talking with you about, but I think it’s really important.’”
A 24/7 mental health crisis line is available at 800-888-6161 for people of all ages. It is confidential and staffed by trained professionals.
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